I have no doubt that microbial life exists elsewhere, probably on some of the ocean worlds in the solar system, but complex, multicellular life seems less likely. A technological civilization seems highly unlikely. Perhaps in some far off time and / or galaxy, but nothing we are likely to detect.
With estimates of something like 100 to 400 billion stars in our galaxy, it seems odd that you would think that the empirical evidence of 1 civilization (us) is somehow compatible with an estimate of no others. That is like saying the odds are 0.25 - 1.0 x 10^-11, but not 0.5 - 2.0 x 10^-11.
Our Earth has not had a nice, even, multi-billion year history that nurtured life from a beginning to now without challenges. In fact, it may well be the challenges that led to the development of highly adaptabe life forms that adapted with "technology" and "civilization".
So, if you are willing to believe that simple life occurs with some substantial frequency, it seems logical to think that it may very well result is what we would call intelligence in a variety of situations.
That does not mean space-faring creatures that can roam the galaxy at will. We really do not have evidence that those are even possible.
And, if we don't get better control of our own behavior, it seems that our data point could become an example of a relatively short time period for a technologically capable civilization.
But, we really have no information about whether even our relatively close neigboring stars ever had in the past, or ever will have in the future, technological beings inhabiting them.