We see no aliens for the very same reason we see no pink flying unicorns.
We see no aliens (from advanced technological civilizations) because:
1) They are here and we can't/haven't detected them because we don't recognize advanced alien technology.
2) They aren't here but they are out there and we haven't been able to detect them, either because we don't recognize the evidence of them, we don't know what the evidence would look like or our tools for looking aren't advanced enough to detect them.
3) They are here, we can detect them but nobody knows what they are. Some UAP sightings are unexplainable, but that's just it, they can't be explained, they can only be guessed at what they might be.
4) They are here, we can detect them, some of us know what they are, but any detections are ridiculed, covered up, and denied, by those in power/those who know
5) They don't exist anywhere in our galaxy close enough for us to detect, but they do exist in other parts of our galaxy, they either have no interest in coming here or communicating with us, or they are coming and we just need to wait for them to get here.
6) They don't exist anywhere else our galaxy but do exist in other galaxies, but they are too far away to detect
7) They don't exist anywhere else in the universe
It's not as simple as you suggested. You only pick 7) because that is your preference and anyone who picks it would stop looking, right? And if you do continue to look, why not do it with an open mind instead of a preconcieved illogical belief.
Lack of (general public) evidence for advanced aliens does not logically lead to the conclusion that they don't exist.
"Carl Sagan's quote, “Absence of Evidence does not mean Evidence of Absence” can be simplified to mean that
the lack of evidence for the existence of something does not necessarily prove that it does not exist at all."
Do we actually know what an advanced civilization would look like? Extrapolating the one example we have (us) to greater and greater technology, that we recognize, obviously isn't working in terms of finding advanced intelligence elsewhere in the universe.
Wasn't it Arthur C. Clark who said that a sufficiently advanced civilization would be indistinguishable from nature. What would a civilization a billion years in advance of us look like? If you saw it would you recognize it as an advanced technological civilization?
Below is an interesting article with the following suggestion:
“In this light, the Sustainability Solution to the Fermi Paradox contains a philosophical takeaway: it tells a story of the convergence of the technosphere with the planet’s pre-existing conditions, rather than the story of replacement or dominance,” Likavčan writes.
Instead of humans being primary, or even existing life being primary, it’s planets that are primary. So a technosphere is only sustainable when it expands or strengthens a planet’s genesity. That puts efforts like SETI, and our understanding of our own civilization’s trajectory, in a new light.
Can civilizations really expand technologically until they build Dyson Spheres? Or do they need to conform to biospheres to survive?
www.universetoday.com