The post that got us into this thread drift was mine regarding planning to avoid contamination of Mars with terrestrial life signatures before we get a chance to determine if there are any native Martian life signatures.
Based on your insistence that life forms on Mars would need to be very similar to life forms on Earth, that seems to support my concern.
We already have some experimental results that were intended to determine if there are active life forms on Mars. The results were positive, but not considered to be unequivocal. So, the question remains, both for current and any previous life forms indigenous to Mars.
Considering that we are intending to use whatever ices and brines we can find on Mars, the potential for contamination seems large, wherever we go there.
I would like to see plans to answer the scientific question properly, rather than assume the answer and argue about the ability of whatever observations we do take to be able to prove it one way or the other.
My best guess would be that life did independently arise on Mars and elsewhere in the solar system, but did not get the chance to evolve into complex surface dwelling species anywhere except on Earth, due to the environmental differences in surface conditions.