All I saw was an orange twinkling star no different from any other star except for the color.
Im betting you discovered the constellation Bootes.......
That bright star is Arcturus. You are not the first to mistake this for Mars. At the time Saturn is rising, Mars is almost overhead.
Planets do not twinkle. However, everything they said about mars it true. You will see a small red disk. Very small. Even my 4.5 Celestron could not make it more than a very small red disk.
My XT8 can make out more details (ice caps), and the filters can tease out a little more.0
3inch is good to start though. Your 3 inch scope, used every night, will give much MUCH better views than a 14inch scope that never leaves the closet because the owner cant deal with moving that much weight.
1/2 inch scope to 100 inch scope doesnt matter........
What matters is that you USE it. Go to some star parties. If your in New England were supposed to have partly cloudy skies tonight with clear skies tomorrow. Its been WEEKS since we've had clear skies, and I am looking forward to it. If your local, then your more than welcome to come and look through mine.
(my very first scope was a 2.5 inch "Railroad Salvage" special. But it was enough to light the spark. I saw a crescent Venus that night for the very first time.)
Now, I use a hand cart, a packing mold, and a bungie cord to move my scope. Just tilt and walk
Seriously, go to a star party. Look and see. If your expectations are too high even a 40 inch scope would not be enough. If you like what you see, then I suggest moving on up to a 4 or 6 inch scope(<-------go with the 6). Personally, I would stay away from the smart scopes. IMO, they are for people that cannot read a map. Learn the hobby, buy a amateur astronomy book. Pick up a cheap pair of Binoculars and learn the book of the sky. Practice star hopping. Try going to the first star in the handle of the big dipper and hop your way all the way to the bowl without looking away from the eyepiece. Master these skills now and it will be much easier if you should decide to buy that bigger scope. You should be able to see most of the big dipper, even under modest light pollution. Once you master the constellations, planets are now EASY. They are the "Stars" that dont belong. So if you see an extra "star" where one shouldn't be, then its either a planet, nova, or supernova. If it changes position over time, its a planet. (wanderers)
There are some UHC filters that may help with the pollution problem. They filter out the wavelengths of light that street lights..ect use. HOWEVER, its a filter and some stars and nebula's USE these wavelengths.
I do not know what eyepiece size your scope takes, I googled your "ghosting" problem and it seems that the fault could be with your Eyepieces. However, if they are smaller in diameter than 1.25 inches then I wouldn't bother. Save your money for a scope that takes 1.25 inch EP, These are "standard" EP size and most accessories are set for either 1.25 or 2inch diameter EP.
Collimation, as MW said, is aligning the mirrors. You start with the secondary (little one) and then align the primary (big one) at the secondary.
Sounds scary, but its very easy once you learn how. My first time took me over an hour. Once the secondary is aligned, unless you drop or bang the scope hard, it will stay that way.
Primary is different. Check alignment right before you go outside. You can just pick this up and carry it, so banging it into something should not be a problem (there is a handle on mine, but using it causes the tube to swing uncomfortably close to the ground. Thats why I have a cart)
http://www.oarval.org/collimatE.htm (descent site that will teach you how)
Enjoy
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