The easy answer is that the individual particles in anti-matter have the opposite charge as the particles in regular matter. When a negatively charged proton anti-matter particle meets with a positively charged matter proton particle, the two opposite charges cancel. The particles themselves therefore disappear because neither one has a charge, and part of being a particle means having a charge. In accordance with Einstein's formula E=mc<sup>2</sup>, the matter that disappears becomes energy.<br /><br />If you met your anti-matter double, then all your particles, and all of his, would cancel their charges and revert to being just energy. A lot of it.