I don't think there is any value in playing with the wording.
Yes, some believe that "dark energy" is "increasing in the universe" while others believe that it is somehow offset by gravitational energy in a closed universe. The discussions I have read all seem to be inept at thinking about total energy, so my tentative conclusion is that "nobody knows".
One possibility is that there is actual energy coming into our (concept of "the") universe from places that we do not conceive. As an example, if our universe is a black hole in a larger universe than we currently recognize, matter and energy could flow into it, but (as far as we can conceive), not out of it. What would we think of that from the "inside"?