That is just the way logic works. And, we don't stop looking for something that we think probably exists, just because it has not already been proven to exist.
Neither abiogenesis not technological life elsewhere in the universe has had enough "looking" to seriously diminish the expectation.
Even on Earth, abiogenesis could be repeatedly starting, and just getting consumed by already present life forms before anybody can distinguish that it is happening. We don't really know what conditions it requires or how long it takes. We do know that it seems to have occurred on Earth when there was virtually no oxygen in the atmosphere and the water chemistry was probably much different. Also, no UV protection by an ozone layer. Did it start in a shallow surface pool bathed in UV light, or a deep ocean vent with no light at all?
The search for signs of life on Mars should provide us with some real advancement in knowledge. Did it ever exist there? Does it still? If neither, then we can lower our expectations for finding it elsewhere, but nowhere near to zero probability.
Likewise, if no sign of present or past life is discovered on Mars, then the probability of life existing elsewhere and evolving technological capabilities is going to be estimated to have a much lower probability.
At some point, if no life, or some life but no technological species are discovered within something like 100 light years from Earth, we will probably decide to not look so hard for it in the future.
But, at this point, I am thinking there is a high probability of finding some sign of life on Mars, but still a very low probability of finding a technological species in any of the star systems in our local part of our galaxy.