Bill, I think you have the impulse requirements backwards. According to Wikipedia
"De-orbiting a geostationary satellite requires a delta-v of about 1,500 metres per second (4,900 ft/s), whereas re-orbiting it to a graveyard orbit only requires about 11 metres per second (36 ft/s).[1]" see
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Graveyard_orbit
"For satellites in geostationary orbit and geosynchronous orbits, the graveyard orbit is a few hundred kilometers beyond the operational orbit. The transfer to a graveyard orbit beyond geostationary orbit requires the same amount of fuel as a satellite needs for about three months of stationkeeping. It also requires a reliable attitude control during the transfer maneuver. While most satellite operators plan to perform such a maneuver at the end of their satellites' operational lives, through 2005 only about one-third succeeded.[2] Given the economic value of the positions at geosynchronous altitude, unless premature spacecraft failure precludes it, satellites are moved to a graveyard orbit prior to decommissioning."
So, Bill, if you can find the propellant requirements for station keeping for some of the bigger satellites, you can figure the propellant needs to transfer them to the graveyard orbits.
We still don't agree on how much ablated material would need to be substituted for that propellant. You seem to think it is only twice as much - I have not done the analysis, but you can if you are so inclined to prove your 0.5 efficiency.
But, to get back to the point I started with: How much of the satellite's material will need to be blasted off its surface with a laser and how likely is that to affect the integrity of the satellite. I am not thinking the ablation is only going to need to affect "a few microns" of the satellite's surface.
And, that doesn't consider the acceleration forces, either. You mentioned 20 m/s net velocity increase created by a microsecond laser pulse. That looks like 20 m/s divided by 0.000001 second of acceleration, which is equal to 20 million m/s^2. That is about 2 million Gs of acceleration. I'll give you that the ablation would last somewhat longer than the laser pulse, but it isn't going to last for a second, either, which would be needed to make it something like 2 Gs..
I don't know where you are getting your numbers, but they aren't seeming to "add up" right.