Yes. As Douglas Adams put it, "Space is big. You just won't believe how vastly, hugely, mind-bogglingly big it is. I mean, you may think it's a long way down the road to the chemist's, but that's just peanuts to space."
I don't think you appreciate how much humans
can comprehend.
True, we can't comprehend infinity, but given the time since the big bang, we *can* comprehend the size of the universe fairly easily: if the big bang occurred 4.3 billion years ago, and the expansion occurred at the speed of light (at most), then the universe is less than 4.3 billion light years across. Possibly twice that measured from the center, but there is so center,. That is where our comprehension starts going off the rail, but it's fine until then.
Yes and no.
What you are missing is how the the intelligent life gets there.
For example, Homo Sapiens lived in Africa for almost 300,000 years before we showed up in Americas 20,000 years ago. Not because we couldn't.
If you are implying that intelligent life will appear every where that it can survive (presumably through abiogenisis or panspermia and then evolution), then you are making some really big assumptions. Having a very big brain is metabolically quite expensive, and there are lots of difficult filter we had to survive in order to get to where we are now (and there are probably a number of huge ones ahead of us too!).
For example, what is necessary for tide pools and deep sea vents--places biologists usually mention as being necessary for providing the metabolic energy and the evolutionary pump for multicellularism? You need a very large moon not only to thin the crust (without the Moon we would be like Venus) for tectonic plates to happen (and deep sea vents to appear). Also, you also need that same large moon to cause tides (hence tide pools). Otherwise the environment is too static for anything to happen. The thing is, double planets like Earth and Luna are very rare.
There are at least a dozen other filters (some of which we don't know about), without which we would still be as dumb as fish. You can't have a water world because it's kindof difficult to start fires. More to the point, why are killer whales so much smarter than sharks? Does intelligence depend on having dry land? You need to do persistence hunting to develop intelligence, not only so that hunters must become intelligent enough to always chase the same individual prey, but also so that the running females small hips force the young to be born prematurely--enabling environment (such as culture and technology) to play a larger role compared to instincts.
That would seem a reasonable assumption, though what you mean by "different" is unclear.
There are many instances of parallel evolution here on Earth; it would also be reasonable to for intelligent life to be quite similar to us.
Artificial Intelligence pioneer Marvin Minsky proposed that we would have a relatively easy time communicating with intelligent aliens because mathematics and physics is the same across the universe, and provides the common ground for understanding. Theologians like Thomas Aquinas who share a similar belief in objective truth would probably agree (though in this case the objective subject matter is different).
If it's "made of TV" I would be suspicious. For one thing, if these aliens were "passing through our solar system" then they would be less than a thousand years ahead of us. And they would be able to decipher our TV broadcasts (now 40 light-years out) and speak English. If they were a million years ahead of us, they would just appear and disappear whenever they wanted. And if they were that advanced, they could use their advanced knowledge to communicate in terms we could understand. It is true that it would take us a while to understand some of their concepts, but they would have no problem with ours.
Given the reasonable assumption that any space-faring aliens will be more technologically advanced than us, this is a reasonable conclusion. However, you are also assuming that they do not share the most obvious attribute of life: it spreads into every possible niche it possibly can--adapting as necessary. You need to discover a reason why *NO* technologically advanced aliens have already taken over this solar system. This is the essence of the Fermi Paradox. From everything we know about stars, chemistry, and biology, alls of the intelligent species in this galaxy should be here by now (actually, hundreds of millions of years ago). But they aren't. So what happened to them? What big filter stopped them? Because we are going to face that filter in our future, and if nothing else, that should scare the living daylights of us.
To hold such a belief, you must propose a solution to the Fermi Paradox, not to mention a realistic hypothesis for abiogenisis or panspermia. What are the filters that explain the Great Silence?
If intelligent beings millions of years more advanced than us are out there, they could easily hide. Maybe they already moved to another dimension. In either case, for all practical purposes we are alone, probably due to make a similar possibility in our future. Though it ought to be fairly easy to detect things like Dyson Rings and Matrioshka Brains, even with our primitive technology. In the foreseeable future (100 years), we should be able to build telescopes with the aperture of entire planets.
Of course you're wrong. Maybe not even wrong, which would be worse.
But it's important to know *why* you're wrong. I'm sure that I'm wrong too, but nobody has been able to explain why I might be wrong. Maybe you can. The object of the game is to be less wrong by following the available evidence to the truth.