Newton’s gravity only applies to neutral matter. A net E or net M can easily over ride gravity. And light into a gas can easily disturb gravity upon the mass. And disturb the EM of the gas.
And on an atomic scale, even though the fields are considered neutral, there is still EM field interaction between atoms, and still net charge regions of the atom. Neutral particle interaction is still EM interaction. The fields are still there. And superposition. Angular superposition. Much, much stronger than gravity.
The quantum attractive force(charge force) is limited, has range and does not attract until contact. The charge E bond is an equalization of field density. The electron and the proton attract until a certain distance, a field equalization barrier, and if the charges get closer than that, the charges repel.
This is not a new idea, it’s an old idea and not taught today.
This close repelling force is what’s needed to over come the making of a neutron. If you take a H1 atom, a dipole, and smash it flat, The proton will be in the center of the electron. It’s a dipole that can not vibrate, it just wobbles. A locked dipole. Only a star can make neutrons. And only an atom with 3 or more protons is possible with neutrons. Dead dipoles.