The quickest way to get a response, would probably be to send a signal, of all wavelengths that can travel the distance to the 'habitable planet'. The signal would be repeated over and over again stating of the imminent danger that is to come. We would word it something like this "we have created and specialize in 'Planet Buster' technology which has the capability of wiping out any stellar system. The Planet Buster technology is currently being used to clear out the non-living systems, to make communication and travel easier to the inhabited parts of space. This use of this technology is in accordance to MW-Galaxy Policy on Governing Weapons Use, Book 2243P, Page 44326, Revision 14. Please return a signal to allow us to acknowledge your existence by adding your location and technological advancement to our database."
If they received the signal by lets say, radio frequency, I'd bet they would be swarming like angry ants. We could probably hear some type of signal coming back from the distress of the other civilization.
Let's say they have received the signal via microwave (I believe is our fastest type of communication), then we would hear back from them quite quickly. Probably being more advanced than us, would have to ask themselves, why haven't they heard of such policies, and how many other civilizations does their database consist of.
So, either way, quick response, and no chance of starting a war with a more advanced civilization without them knowing who and how many are backing us up in a battle.